Meeting someone in a bar

It's a Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday (pick a day of the week) night on a college campus. The odds are, you're most likely going to a bar to drink. But are you really going to a bar to JUST drink? Probably not. Odds are you're going to a bar to possibly meet someone. The question is: WHY? Do people honestly think they're going to meet their future husband or wife in a drunken, sweaty grinding session at the local college pub? Not so hot, in my opinion.

What I can say, is that most people let their walls down and like to flirt while they are at the bar. The tease and the attention makes breaking the ice a bit easier. However, I can't see "combing the bars" to look for someone who shares your interests... especially if you're not a bar person (like myself). In my opinion, you don't know if you're talking to the actual person's real personality, or the alcohol in their system.

If you are looking for a serious relationship, don't venture to a college bar to find one. Now if you're looking for a one-night stand or someone to distract your lonliness, a college bar is the ticket.