It's hard enough to make local relationships work, but having miles, states and sometimes even an ocean between you makes it even more difficult. However, successful long distance relationships can and do exist. Here's how to give yours every chance to survive and thrive.
1. Make sure you are both clear on what the terms are. If you don't want your boyfriend/girlfriend seeing other people, make sure you establish that from the start.
2. Communicate in some way every day. Since you won't be seeing each other, it's important to establish and maintain an emotional connection.
3. Take advantage of the benefits. Spend more time with your friends and family. No arguments over toothpaste caps or the seat being down. The pleasure of seeing your significant other again after a long absence. Most important, being apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality.
4. Avoid the temptation to be controlling. People have free will and no one can or should control another person. As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference.
5. Be positive. Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects of long distance is essential to keeping your relationship blooming and your partner content.
6. Remember... things can only get better!
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