Sunday, April 26, 2009

Girls <3 the jerks

Every day, my male friends complain to me that girls always like jerks. So I decided to interview one in particular who has told me this multiple times. This interview is between myself and my friend, Jimi Payne, a senior at Towson University. This is his personal outlook on girls, relationships and dating.

1. What type of girl do you prefer to date?
A: I prefer to date girls that have an outgoing and friendly personality. I would be lying if I said I like dating pretty girls, what boy doesn't? However, brains count a lot for me because if the girl can't hold an intelligent conversation, then I lose interest mentally and it becomes just a physical attraction. I like pretty eyes and smile. I am attracted to all "flavors" of women, but I do have a little bit of yellow fever (haha).

2. What's the difference in dating a "nice" girl or a "bad" girl? (we know there's a difference)
A: You date a nice girl and wait until she is ready to get physical. You hang out and hook up with a bad girl. The hard part is figuring out if she is nice or bad before getting emotionally involved. Girls can be sneaky, especially beautiful ones because they know they can get away with things due to their looks.

3. Why do you think girls always go for the jerks?
A: Jerks tell girls what they want to hear and girls fall for it. I also think girls like the challenge of changing a guy or making him fall in love, which rarely happens and we guys know it. Jerks have "game," so it's easy for them to play girls. Girls also have a bad habit of liking or going for boys with girlfriends, some boys take advantage of this situation. Women are confusing and complicated.

4. Do you think it pays off to be a nice guy? Or do nice guys always finish last?
A: It pays off to be a nice guy with a nice girl. Apart from that, Hell NO. Be a gentleman, but don't be a push over because most girls will use you or just take you for a ride and spend your money and leave your heart and wallet broke. I know this will sounds horrible, but most of the boys I know that are/were faithful to their girlfriends got cheated on or played in some way (I am one of them). The ones that cheated are going out with the same girl or have another steady girlfriend. So, yes, nice guys definitely finish last.

5. Would you consider yourself a "nice" guy?
A: I am a nice guy at heart, but it's broken now so I'm going to try this being a jerk thing for a while to see if I can find me a girl. In the end, my nice guy will come out.


Thanks Jimi!!

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