Stage 5 clinger

If you've ever seen the movie Wedding Crashers (if you haven't, you need to) then you know the saying "stage 5 clinger." Usually, males use this term to explain that a girl is "clingy" and becomes obsessed with them quickly. This includes constant calling, saying "I love you" too fast, always wanting to spend time with you, constant touching, etc.

Although, recently, I've been noticing a lot of my girlfriends saying their boyfriend or guy their dating is being too clingy. In my opinion, most girls want to date someone who is laid back, and I'm sure it's the same for guys. But when a guy becomes clingy too fast- it's probably the most unattractive quality they can have (from a girls perspective).

For example, my friend recently started dating this guy who she thought was "Mr. Perfect" until he began calling her all the time, holding her hand in public after only a few dates, and always wanting to hang out with her... even if she already has plans. YUCK!!

Here's my advice to both girls and guys: The more laid back you are in relationships, the better the chance you have of the relationship working out. If it doesn't work out- well it wasn't meant to be anyways... so chill out!